This is an interesting tactic of alienators. I used the title Mountain out of Shrubbery, 1st because I love Monty Python and second, because the mountain has barely a relationship with shrubbery (unlike a molehill), but it's still relevant as there is shrubbery on mountains.
What does all this mean? What I'm trying to say is that alienators have a knack of taking an inane everyday occurrence and turning it around into a major act of bad parenting. I'll give you some examples from the alienator in my situation.
My friend took his children to Playdium. For those of you not familiar with Playdium, it's an arcade center where kids play games and win tickets, then at the end, they can take those tickets and trade them in for prizes. The more tickets, the better the prize. I believe Sylvan learning centers also work like this concept, the better you do at homework, the more stars or tickets you get and then you can trade them in for prizes.
Well, my friend took his children to Playdium on one of this parenting weekends. They were around 8 and 12 or so. Next thing he knows he's hit with a motion from the kids mother, the alienator, that he is a horrible parent and has taken the children to a 'gambling establishment'!
Again, many things are wrong with this scenario besides the obvious. One is that the same shameful human being Sharon Shore of Epstein Cole in Toronto, actually puts such crap into legal documetion just to harass my friend, waste court time and obviously make more money for her! Secondly, the children wanted to go to Playdium because the weekend before one of them was at a friends birthday party held at Playdium (which I guess the mother had no issue about as they were not with their father), and thirdly, this is coming from a woman who took her children to Las Vegas hotels and gambling establishments herself!
Again, if two innocent children and thousand of dollars wasted on bullshit like this were not involved, this is so ridiculous, it's hilarious. I bet Monty Python would have a hay day with it even!
There are many examples of things like this. Again from my situation... 7 year old daughter going into dads bed at night becomes 'inappropriate behavior' on the part of the father, taking the daughter to a park and talking to kids at the park becomes 'dangerous irresponsible' behavior on the part of the father, father being late for drop off by 10 minutes becomes 'abduction', father taking the kids out for ice cream becomes 'feeds them nothing but junk food'.. and so on. I think you get my drift.
Alienators will pick at minute, mundane events and turn them into giant mountains of concern that they need to 'protect' the children from. They seem to have no concept of reasonable behavior, and interestingly enough cannot see any of their own parenting or human flaws. They are obsessed and focused on finding every little thing they can to exaggerate how 'bad' a parent the other person is, and how 'good' a parent they are. What is sad about all this and why education and awareness is so important, is that some lawyers encourage this type of behavior (such as Sharon Shore of Epstein Cole) by putting it into legal documentation!
Maybe you have some examples of this kind of behavior.. ridiculous things that everyday people have no issue with but the alianator has turned into a 'mountain'. Share it with me and others on this blog.
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Sunday, November 28, 2010
False Allegations
Unfortunately one of the alienating tactics of abusive parents is false allegations of abuse. In my situation, it was mild.. but it could have escalated easily. She had her lawyer put a letter to the father accusing him of 'inappropriate behavior'
What was described as 'inappropriate behavior' was in reality instances when the daughter crawled into bed with him some nights when she was scared. She was 7 or 8!!
There is something repulsive and vile about any human being that uses false allegations as a tactic to hurt another person. There's something even more vile and repulsive about a lawyer who knows there is nothing wrong with a 7 year old sleeping with her father, and still goes ahead and puts it in writing in order for her client to”win'. One such lawyer would be Sharon Shore of Epstein Cole in Toronto. One can only hope that the evil karma she brews in her vile attempt at making a living will one day come back to haunt her personally. Such people are a disgrace to not only women, but to the human race!
False allegations of abuse, are abuse.What is ironic in my situation is that Ms Sharon Shore is associated with the Jewish Family and Child Services centre in Toronto. They are both a child protection and advocate against the abuse of women. I find this ironic because in effect what she has done is harm abused women even more.. by perpetuating false allegations, wasting court time, police time and other social services time on these false allegations, real women who are truly abused have to wait for help.. have to suffer while people don't take them seriously because social services and police see so many false allegations.
Some people believe that imposing a penalty on women (and men), who come forward with false allegations of abuse will somehow deter real abuse victims from coming forward to seek help and justice. I find this an idiotic argument! If you are really abused, there is nothing to worry about, justice will be served. What is happening now as a result of not having any penalty for false allegations is people using the system to their advantage with no discouragement whatsoever. In fact, they are encouraged because they can do it over and over again, with no penalty, jail time or anything else while the accused party suffers emotional and financial damage! Frankly they should have penalties not only for the person doing it, but for lawyers who assist their clients with obvious false allegations as well!
As an aside, the system is so messed up, I have seen an 11 year old threaten a male friend saying she would tell her parents he touched her privates if he didn't comply with her demand to change the radio station to the channel she wanted. I have also seen my own son come home crying from grade one because some girls cornered him and told him they could beat him up, that not only he couldn't touch them, but if he even looked at them badly the police would take him to jail!
What kind of society are we building for our children! Wake up people, these are your sons and grandsons that will have to live with this in the future,and what if your daughter or grand-daughter was actually in danger? Would you not want them getting help right away? If you see false allegations, don't shrug it off.. say something. Women did not fight centuries to have rights, security and protection equal to men just to have ignorant money / power hungry women use it to their advantage! Shame on anyone that does this or helps someone do this!
Note: this blog is about FALSE allegation of abuse. If it's TRUE allegations, then that is a completely different story and has nothing to do with Parental Alienation Signs.
What was described as 'inappropriate behavior' was in reality instances when the daughter crawled into bed with him some nights when she was scared. She was 7 or 8!!
There is something repulsive and vile about any human being that uses false allegations as a tactic to hurt another person. There's something even more vile and repulsive about a lawyer who knows there is nothing wrong with a 7 year old sleeping with her father, and still goes ahead and puts it in writing in order for her client to”win'. One such lawyer would be Sharon Shore of Epstein Cole in Toronto. One can only hope that the evil karma she brews in her vile attempt at making a living will one day come back to haunt her personally. Such people are a disgrace to not only women, but to the human race!
False allegations of abuse, are abuse.What is ironic in my situation is that Ms Sharon Shore is associated with the Jewish Family and Child Services centre in Toronto. They are both a child protection and advocate against the abuse of women. I find this ironic because in effect what she has done is harm abused women even more.. by perpetuating false allegations, wasting court time, police time and other social services time on these false allegations, real women who are truly abused have to wait for help.. have to suffer while people don't take them seriously because social services and police see so many false allegations.
Some people believe that imposing a penalty on women (and men), who come forward with false allegations of abuse will somehow deter real abuse victims from coming forward to seek help and justice. I find this an idiotic argument! If you are really abused, there is nothing to worry about, justice will be served. What is happening now as a result of not having any penalty for false allegations is people using the system to their advantage with no discouragement whatsoever. In fact, they are encouraged because they can do it over and over again, with no penalty, jail time or anything else while the accused party suffers emotional and financial damage! Frankly they should have penalties not only for the person doing it, but for lawyers who assist their clients with obvious false allegations as well!
As an aside, the system is so messed up, I have seen an 11 year old threaten a male friend saying she would tell her parents he touched her privates if he didn't comply with her demand to change the radio station to the channel she wanted. I have also seen my own son come home crying from grade one because some girls cornered him and told him they could beat him up, that not only he couldn't touch them, but if he even looked at them badly the police would take him to jail!
What kind of society are we building for our children! Wake up people, these are your sons and grandsons that will have to live with this in the future,and what if your daughter or grand-daughter was actually in danger? Would you not want them getting help right away? If you see false allegations, don't shrug it off.. say something. Women did not fight centuries to have rights, security and protection equal to men just to have ignorant money / power hungry women use it to their advantage! Shame on anyone that does this or helps someone do this!
Note: this blog is about FALSE allegation of abuse. If it's TRUE allegations, then that is a completely different story and has nothing to do with Parental Alienation Signs.
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